It is ridiculous you cannot get support. I would not let the staff push to go more often,be guided by his health and do it very gradually. It is awful when anxiety takes over,my son was like that when he was badly bullied at his first infant school. I think they also feel embarassed in front of the other children because they want to be seen as normal and not needing extra help. Schools also seem so slow in taking up the idea of someone giving a talk on hms to the pupils or staff,if it was me I would be far more willing to accept as it teaches children to be more understanding of children with medical problems. I find boys seem to find it hard to speak about how they feel. Hope you can help your son,if ever he would like to talk to my son feel free to contact and he can have his email to chat. Take care.
Mum to son with hms,pain amplification,migraine,plantar fascitis,ibs.lactose intolerant,hayfever and numerous allergies. I have hms,arthritis,migraine,p.o.t.s,allergies,and others too numerous to mention. Acused of being mentally ill hence.....madmum.