by sueiz » Mon Jan 10, 2011 9:15 pm
Hi,
I'm sorry to hear you're having such a rough time of it at the moment. I'm no expert I'm afraid, I'm only just learning about SI joints myself!
I think, from what I can gather, that supports and braces, aids, sticks, crutches etc seem to divide the medical peeps. One set seems happy for you to use them as a pacing tool, the other insist that they only weaken your core muscles in the long term. I suspect both are right, so I take the view that I will use them, but only when absolutely necessary to protect myself from injury when I have to do something that I know will aggravate my weak joints - like sitting at a desk all day!!
I try to do without my stick and/or my wheelchair as much as possible (pride as much as anything!) but there are times (like needingto go round town, or down endless hospital corridors) where I simply couldn't manage without them. I guess what I'm trying to say is, you know your own pain & tolerance levels, what in your life is unavoidable (working for instance) and you have to find a path that enables you to function without getting stuck in the cycle of doing too much, pain, enforced rest, trying to catch up by doing too much...etc etc...
Core muscle strength is key, but if you already have overtight muscles or damage due to joint problems, you need to get them to relax & recover before trying to build back up, otherwise you're just adding to the problem. My chiropractor has explained it like this: Muscles are like groups of elastic bands, when they get injured they "shred", a bit like those cheese strings, so can end up knotted and kinda cross-knit; so before you can strengthen them, they need to be realigned so they can work efficiently.
There are no quick fixes i'm afraid, but your physio certainly sounds like he's willing to work to your body's timescale, and he may be right that ypur muscles need to relax before he can work on improving them, for the reasons stated above.
Best wishes & gentle hugs
Sue
Psalm 139; Isaiah 40:28-31 & 43:1-4