I feel for you flying fairy... you are obviously at a stage in your life where you are ready to let someone close in...
All I can say is it will happen... I waited a year to get my hubby, as he was with someone else when I first met him and neither of us is the type to do anything behind peoples backs.... though having said that he only saw me as a friend when he was with her and even when they broke up he wasnt interested in me straight away.
It frustrated me at the time but looking back that was good, at least I know he's loyal!!
My hubby is fantastic, but its only really these last few months he's taking more notice of my HMS but that might be cos Ive been getting worse.
It was he who organised me to go privately to an osteopath (and he paid for the appointments).
He'd do anything for me and helps out when its needed around the house. My problem is I often just get on and do things and regret it afterwards (things like loading the dishwasher) but thats where hes a typical bloke, tends to put things BY the dishwasher when its just as easy to put them in!!! Im the sort of person who is too tidy for my own good.
I wouldnt swop him for anything though.....and he is GRADUALLY learning!!
Im smitten and all I can say is before I was with him I never thought Id find my 'soul mate' Id been with a few blokes (not in a tarty way!!!
) so I was never short of finding a bloke, just couldnt find the 'right' one...
I moved from Southampton up here (Staffordshire) to get him. The weirdest thing is my dad knew his parents from when they were about 19!!! they have photos of them at that age together.... they never kept in touch and it was only when my parents moved up here (through work) that they met up again...
Hmmmmmmmmm I def think there was a reason for them being sent here. Especially as I was all set to stay down in Southampton and go to uni there...
It will happen, and when it does it'll be fantastic, be patient flying fairy... If you dont mind me asking...how old are you?
Lianne
