by AnnaH » Fri Jul 09, 2010 12:10 am
I was turned down for DLA last year when my diagnosis was "just" fibromyalgia, osteomalacia (a vitamin D deficiency bone disease which had not been responding to treatment), asthma, severe, life-threatening allergies and Aspergers syndrome. At the time, I was using a wheelchair out of the house most of the time, I had to have help around the house and I had a carer that was funded via Direct Payments. I was in chronic, severe pain (and still am).
My denial letter was what my friend describes as an "I wish", as in "I wish I really could do all that!". I tried to appeal, but they lost the paperwork and I'm afraid to say, I felt so ill, I just gave up.
Everyone's been trying to persuade me to have another go but reading some of the posts here, of people much worse than me who've been turned down, I'm wondering if its worth it. What if they just think my diagnoses mean I get a bit sore sometimes, I'm double-jointed, need to take some vitamin D supplements, get a bit wheezy sometimes, am neurotic about my food and suffer from an obsession with Star Trek?
It is so annoying to me that they don't seem to have medical advisors who have a clue: case in point, they assume that conditions like allergies can be easily treated or you can just avoid the allergen. But it isn't that simple - I have to take a pile of medications just to function at this time of year because my primary allergy is to grass. And then it is difficult to go outside, which is a problem that has contributed to my severe vitamin D deficiency, and bone disease. So many problems are like a domino effect, but the DWP don't seem to appreciate that at all. I dread to think what they think about HMS - they probably just think we should all be on X Factor that that's that, like the magazine I found the other day in which a mother was told of her hypermobile child "Get him into gymnastics - he'll probably be brilliant at it!" (and I thought of the number of times the PE teacher had to write a note home in the form "Anna has fallen off... and has hurt her... ).
Anyway, I haven't decided if I'll have another go. The DWP seem eminently hostile towards people with multiple, variable conditions.